Ask Anna: i needed my partner to rest with another guy, however now i’ve doubts. Can I turn my cuckolding fantasy into truth?

Ask Anna: i needed my partner to rest with another guy, however now i’ve doubts. Can I turn my cuckolding fantasy into truth?

Ask Anna is an intercourse line. Due to the nature of this subject, some columns contain language some visitors might find visual.

We have now been together for nine years. We now have an excellent relationship and great intercourse. I’ve always thought it will be hot to see my spouse rest with another guy. I consequently found out in early stages within our relationship (months in) that she had been still starting up along with her ex and discovered that super hot. Up until now we now have just talked about any of it while having sex but we shared with her i needed her to locate somebody, have intercourse then get home if you ask me and let me know about this.

Well, evidently this guy is known by her at the office and they’ve got been sexting. My partner is able to rest with him, which will satisfy my dream, except that I’m having trouble along with it given that it is becoming a real possibility.

I usually thought it, it would be a stranger and she wouldn’t see him again if we did. And I’m additionally unsure if I’d choose to ensure that is stays into the world of dream or if I’m simply stressed since it’s the first occasion. I suppose my issues are that she actually really likes this person and what that may do in order to our relationship.

Additionally, imagine if we ever came across him? I’m going to feel uncomfortable because he won’t understand i understand, nor do We desire him to because I discover that more embarrassing, and let’s say he informs individuals she works together? Then I’d become the guy whoever spouse is cheating though I would know on him even. Continue reading “Ask Anna: i needed my partner to rest with another guy, however now i’ve doubts. Can I turn my cuckolding fantasy into truth?”